Brother, Can You Spare A Dime?

Someone asks as you’re leaving a coffee shop: “Excuse me, could you spare a little change for a coffee?” What do you do? Say “No, sorry”, without breaking your stride, even if you have change. Don’t say anything, just shaking your head “No”, even if you have change. Scrutinize them first, seeing how they look; do they appear destitute? Are they worthy, in your eyes, of your change? If you’re